Since I spoke to him i've spoken to a few of my Aquarius Male friends. We have done the break up thing 5 times. I have never had a man treat me like Im no big deal before - yet Im curiously drawn to him. This is a never ending thing. I may be just paranoid about him not contacting me for more than a few days. In order for a relarionship to work with an aqua man you need to realise this will only happen if you are willing to play it his way - his terms and conditions. We had talked and I thought everything was fine. Aquarius air element keeps them constantly active and Hi everyone! That he decided Im too much work (Im a Pisces and we are a bit emotional), or that he was using me, or is in love w/ me and is afraid..it doesnt matter does it? ive been trying but it doesnt seem to be working as far as bringing him back to what it was. This can help restore balance and give insight into paths forward. It was a miscommunication, he took a break again. I'm not perfect either, but my gracious, I don't go from hot to cold in less than 60 seconds for no reason. He constantly accused me through our who relationship. Everything was on fire from the very first convo-- we had everything in common, and the things that were different complemented each other. Every year, around 90,000 people are reported missing in Japan. I never bother bout what people think because we really are best of friends! Will Aquarius disappear and comes back? You just have to remind him of that every once and awhile. Other factors are causing Aquarius to vanish too: All these reasons may be making Aquarius less visible in the night sky, giving us fewer chances to observe astrology symbols in the stars. I have a lot of frustration and hurt feelings and I want to express them, but at the same time I don't want to give him the satisfaction o seeing the effect his disappearing act has had on me. he dumped me! Tropical fish are disappearing i know its not the beat time to meet someone this way but we did. I feel the same way. But, he wants me to be his best friend. he used to smile when he came to see me and bow he has a straight face. He takes like 10 hours to text back and when he does hes telling me he sorry that he misses me that he cant wait to see me.. but then again he dissapear and stop texting me out of nowhere.. Im confused cuz i feel like hes getting bored of me and that he dont want nothing with me.. Its possible that an Aquarius has created the mental narrative that others wont approve of the choices they make, so they disappear to avoid dealing with it. Simply click here to return to Aquarius man. I'm a scorpio. Sometimes a few times a week, sometimes not for 6 weeks. It still hasn't affected me. Many thanks and good luck to you all. He doesn't want to go fast at all, no matter what kind of signals he may accidentally be sending. I mean I'm definitely interested in him but I'm really not sure how he feels abt me(I'm an Aries grl). were Why Aquarians need their alone time to recharge, to think things I mean how is it that a man has a woman who loves him unconditionally , loyal, & just a great woman all round. My Dolphins were still there, that is, until I paused the game and exited out of full-screen and returned a few moments later, that my Dolphins had disappeared. It's like he cast a spell on me. :) as if nothing happened. It's the most powerful tool I've found to predict the future of a relationship. This being nice and not trying to hurt anybody is so ridiculous. finally a man who can beat me at my own game (or downfall should i say). Emotionally Stressed Out An Aquarius man pulls away when in love when things are moving too fast for him. hes charming but he has sharp tongue! We talk almost every day, into the night, and we have talked about EVERYTHING. Good luck,gf, and try not to get too frustrated with him, and just go about your business, and what happens, happens! I havent heard from him since that day, i called several times and no response. He says he loves me, but not on the same level that I love him. Aqua Interpreter on Tumblr When im with him he is affectionate and I can tell he has something for me, but its like a rollercoaster! One minute you'd swear they want to spend every minute with you, which we know is not the case, and the next they treat you like the babysitter or some mere acquaintance! my (ex) aries chick dumped me n ran to a taurus bastard n we all know how stupid action it was lol.i enjoyed the show when things on her getting worse.yes aries ladies,you entertain me much.thank you :) from my experience,i disapear from the world just only when i need a time to continue build my time machine to travel to the future.since it is a secret project i dont bring anybody but just my self, I just recently realized that many of the guys I've been into/have liked me were Aquarians! he also kissed me . I am totally lost and confused. After the first couple months I expressed to him that he wasn't making enough time for me, and I backed off a bit. I donot call, he makes the call to me and if I see a missed call I would return the call. but then yeah he bought me bunch chocolate and tedy bear and flower with poetry i mean aquarians like casanova they r very good at words! This post is really helpful. (Aquarius sun, taurus moon, leo rising). Why Aquarius suddenly vanish can be puzzling. All of which he has to want to develop independently. Thanks yes 9 years is a very long time. My family are struggling with his decision what are we too dowe are in too deep.. As a Scorpio woman this seems like so much work. He doesn't seem to care. WebFriedle dated Jennifer Love Hewitt, who appeared in one of the most popular episodes, And Then There Was Shawn, and while they havent asked her yet, he notes theyd love to Aries usually have no issue getting things done, but if a reply from them lags, it's probably because they don't consider your text a priority. Then, I told him he either had to choose me or the other girls, and surprisingly, he chose me. Aquarius (Jan. 20 To Feb. 18) Aquarius has a reputation for being cold-hearted, which isn't It's been a month and no word from him. I am used to men chasing me, not me contacting a guy to see if he wants to meet up. This makes them independent and special. He went lmao :p.sighs so confused with his actions I hope he lost his fone again! He talked about the future and made plans for us. Dont go it alone. So bare with me if what I add here is what I've written so far. From mid May onwards, the interaction changed in the sense, we used to go out for one on one movies and shopping etc once in a while for every weekend till July start.And,he was being nice and everyone in office has been speculating that there is something fishy about us. Is his I need time and space a way for him to nicely say we are done? Who knows, probably because they tend be so unpredictable, he may text and say something really crazy and want to "hook-up" again, and if that happens, then I'll deal with it when happens! Can you tell me why he must be behaving like this?Please can you tell me what should i do & how should i go bout it? Thanks so much I and to you too Viking! For me, at least, it is just having fun, just interacting. This helped alot. How do I get to askin u further Q's if I need ur views?. he's just another player, and seeing him with another girl confirmed this. From naughty to nice, my reviews of ebooks on dating, love, sex and more. I noticed a lot of questions were asking about why their Aquarius men are disappearing or doing 180's in the personality department. Hi ladies! we were spending one night together drunk, telling all of our feelings about each other-- then that was the last verbal convo we ever had! Heres the thing, we got into it a few days ago, but we talked it over. See ya! I had aqua males in my life too, the ones that were doing disappearing act r just having someone else. Any help on this? And you wanna get as far away from them as you can. Hi, I am writing a post up here because of the sort of irritation that this Aquarius guy has created. He has texted me once during this time because he said he missed me. do i back off as well? There is always talk of marriage, putting a ring on my finger (even how many carats), taking me on trips, the whole nine yards, but nothing has come of it, haven't seen jack and I'm okay with thisjust that I sense a lot of talk but not a doer in that aspect so I take everything he says with a grain of salt and not rely heavily on the "good" talk because I know it's just talk, but that mess has got to stop, I hate bs. I can tell you one thing: an Aquarius is quite a handful. His actions says otherwise like he meets me on weekends & the very fact that he's there with me & he shares all that he did thru out the day even wen I dint ask him, shows that he likes my company but again wht nxt, i.e. You will find that you may be the one initiating most things and he'll go along with it. I will get bored and feel unloved and move on with a quickness and not look back. and they don't want games? I called and left 1 message, a couple of texts and an email..and no reply. The next few days we talked once a day and then all of a sudden I didn't hear from him at all. I am addressing that and we had a while where only 1 argument and I didn't run, he talked me out of it. I cant change who I am. As I read through I have picked out many words that I have used to describe this so called relationahip I am in. I am a confused (and frustrated I might add because of him!) The information I read is good but sometimes I'm use to him but this right here what he is doing is so hurtful. When I told him what hurt he caused me 10 years ago and the effect it had on my subsequent relationships, he said 'Ive made him want to kill hims self', and if anyone hurts me he cares deeply and wants to annihilate any threat to me. Their nature is unique, and they often wonder why people do what they do. Tiny..I feel ya, gf! Yet I'm the opposite with my bf and now he's acting distant? I think some of my questions have been answered. Unlock the secrets to make them fall in love with you quickly! Either you want to be with me, or ya don't! How the hell can I have a relationship with someone who always has his sprinting shoes on, & eying the door, if I unbalance his correct amount of romance/love/affection that makes him feel 'free'? How can a man be so open with their emotions say they love you, they feel like a kid again, that you make them happier than they have been in a long time. I ignored him and finally send him a long text telling him that I dont do games. I love spending time with him & genuinely just care a whole lot bout him! Youll come out stronger than ever! she needs emotional intimacy, etc, etc. WebYou'll often be left wondering where did they go & what did you do wrong (which is why Aquarians are labelled as being cold & distant). I am an Aquarius woman, I would indulge in doing my own activities and mingling with other friends so that I don't focus on the aquarian man to provide me happiness. It's just madness to have to work that hard to be with someone, doesn't make any sense to me! they disappear because they dont want you. Why Female Zodiac Signs Act Distant, Pull Away And Ignore You Okay so my Aqua guy has been great all weak after I tried to break up with him, he freaked out..Than told me to pu my ring back on and he wanted to go to hawaii and get married?? I mean he bought me nice things & vice versa. They connect the dots of these little things and make them bigger and more beautiful. Im so in love with him, I'm absolutely helpless, I try to ignore his calls, but i can't I value his friendship to me too much. My mantra has been "be patient and positive". I've been dating my aqua for 8mnths and it has been one rocky ride. I'm lost I want to beg and ask him why but you know how that will go. Although it might seem extreme at times, it is vital for Aquarius folks to take some space to carefully assess their feelings and thoughts so they dont become overwhelmed by the complexities of life. I have been having the exact problem at the moment, I have been seeing an aquarius guy who is 10 years older than me for a while now and he has on and off started ignoring my texts and wont get back to me for 24 hours or more but when he decides to finally text back he wants to see me. But i just made it worse on me. WebI am not depressed ( I dont think) during this isolation period. He lost out bigtime. He pushed me away. I'm a Cancer with an Aquarius Moon who dated an Aquarius with a Pisces Moon and I had him on an emotional roller coaster. Well it wasn't that he was disappearing while we were together that was in the beginning when we where friends. But the typical Aqua IS. i was friends with an aqua man for 7 years, the relationship was never sexual, but very intellectually engaging, fun, and light. I have put him in GOD hands and he will be deault with. He was very insecure person,he always thought i was doing something wrong. How to know if you're with your soulmate. An introduction to synastry and compatible astrology. It will make all zodiac signs move away from their original positions over time. Always with his friends, but didn't want me with mines. Hence it seems they can see into your thoughts and say or do the right thing at the right time. When he should be the one saying he loves me? I was under the impression that we were fine. Just treat them like they treat you, they back off, you back off. they WILL come around. I'm not in a hurry to be in a relationship with him. What To Do When An Aquarius Ignores You | YourTango In the 3 months that we have been dating we have only actually got together 4 times (apart from blowing me out in the early days there are other reasons for this. even as a friend it was hard to deal with this behavior and he was never there when i needed him, yet i was always there when he needed a friend; it was definitely always a one-sided friendship, although he'd probably deny that. Closure wont fix the pain, but it can give you strength, courage, resilience, and hope. What Happens When an Aquarius Man How does it work? They want you to be different. Smoke and haze from the Canadian wildfires hang over Pittsburgh on June 28. These men are sweet hearts and know how to sway their women to fall in love with them to keep their women coming back for more. It helped me uderstand aquarian men more. To the point they watch my social sites and will admit it. Being a Libra my emotions took over and I texted him to say hi, still nothing, so I sent him a nice message and still nothing. ?WTF This is after he has been hiding out at a undiclosed location saying that he need to be alone to grieve about his son,,,So I get thatbe alone, move out leave me with the rent sucked it all up, than I find out that he hasnt been alone has been hangin out with all kinds of friendsanyway he shows up last night while a very good girlfriend who showed up and I wanted her to meet him,,,they met and he acted like a total dick to herwhen she left he asked me what have you been telling her about me because she couldnt look me in the eye? Dont spend ur precious time on them, u deserve better, u all sound like very sweet ladies. But does he miss me? Very much agreed, sir! I realized not too long ago that all I have ever dated was Aquas (and Virgos) and I have to say in their defense that they are not all like this. I'm super confused as what happened or what went wrong. Is he distracted and just wants some 'space', like they do, or was his behaviour the last time we met his way of telling me he doesn't want to know? our connection was unbelievable. We have been intimate this last year and we still remained close. He always has an excuse. He travels a lot but he would always send me a text here and there to tell me he was thinking about me. If I start to sense my Aqua guy is giving me the runaround I'm Audi 5000, no regrets. He popped up and called me like it was nothing. He distanced himself, but still was watching my social site and would question me any time I referred to liking someone. I think Aquarisns can be quite emotionally selfish in so far as they need you when they need you but expect you to be quite independent as well. At a deep level, I feel that this beautiful Aquarius man that I love needs my rock solid commitment to him and needs me to be able to hang in even through the occasional times when he seems rather immature and selfish. the next challenge we will face is that i am now abstaining from premarital sex, haha!. He keep saying that we where just friends but wash texxing and calling everyday. These guys are used to girls throwing themselves at them, so when a girl isn't all that impressed they take notice. Fish and Dolphins disappear Most of them are found or return home, but thousands of others simply vanish. Here is kicker: your heart is totally accessible to them, but you cant seem to get anywhere near theirs. Thank you Anna! This sign loves free spirits and progressive thinkers. I wasn't playing a game, I'm a straight shooter and I don't take crap like that from someone who I've made a priority in my life. I find this disappearance act so weird because I'm not used to it and I don't know what to think of it. yeah mine also said 'of course i want to see you, but at least u'll miss me more' Lord knows what that means?? We're very spontaneous, We tend and service to anyone who needs our help and love. whats he thinkin?? They are the worst men in the zodiac for relationships, so don't get caught up with one. The break up was never made official by phone call or conversation. i got his attention by doing something really bad ass, he was all up on me after that but i ignored all of his invitations, hehe. Just dying to get in that little place! So now that I told him I feel stronger feelings towards him he seems to have dipped on me. And what the hell is wrong with me that I feel this much for someone who isnt REALLY giving me a reason to? Immediately. He said he felt the same. Esp other women. One thing that annoys me is how hes always like "oh that girl is hot" or this girl is Hot, I totally get jealous. We'll make that 180 spin because we don't want to have that burden of hurting someone. Aquarius guys like the girls they pretend not to like. Don't push him into a romantic situation. He had some exam for 2 weeks so i let him be. The main reason for an Aquarians How To Make An Aquarius Man Fall In Love? Pick a fun activity, maybe something you know he's been wanting to do, something he can't resist, even if he has been being a recluse. Or something. Being an air sign, they are very communicative and independent-minded. Who i feel don't ever want to commit. Anyway, me and my Aqua guy chatted for a couple of hours every night for a week and were flirty, funny and I felt wow, I am falling for this guy and I haven't even met him. This article is here to help. As if things weren't already bad enough! Updated March 13, 2023 An Aquarius man coming back to an ex isnt unheard of. Then the next day I didn't hear from him. HUH? I've bern with my Aqua guy on and off for 4 yearswe leave together now but he decided he wants to move out. But that didnt happen often enough. We finally started going on dates and having sex (magical!!).. Goodmorning texts every morning, on the phone all the time, spending plenty of time together. But he doesn't, in fact we talk more. With the right understanding, you and your Aquarius man can have a connection like never before! Thing is, if he told me he doesn't it's be easier to move on. Im at lost of words, do kno wat to do. It's easy to do. I an a female aquarius and the situation for me was with this aquarius guy. He leaves and then he gets bored so he comes back again. WebThe one thing you need to know about Aquarius women is that they need to feel in control, in every aspect of their lives. All I know is that, as an Aquarius, I think I know what you are talking about. Who could ever figure out any of this and who has a hundred years to do it? Go to a movie or bowling or to his favorite food joint and just talk.Don't talk about why he hasn't been talking to you or that you've missed him, because that will just make him feel guilty and he'll want to get away from the bad feelings, but also don't make it seem like you've had too much fun while you weren't with him, because that will just make him think that you don't really like him, anyway (again, not in a mean way. I've been dating this Aquarius man for 6 months. He hates me. He took a break about 2 months ago after a few fights where I felt were unresolved so I threatened in heat of argument to leave. of the Zodiac Before I read this great information I didn't know how to deal with the Aquatius male.